Well... I'm screwed.

[AgeingBronco]

2 weeks ago, me and my girlfriend had sex. Everything was fun and all, until the condom broke. Well, today is the first she had contacted me since the incident and she said that she missed her period. She was extremely mad over the phone and she said she was taking me to court if I got her pregnant.

Well, would she actually have a legit case if she took me to court? We both AGREED on doing it when we did, although I did propose it.

It's been 3 and a half years that we've been together(Met her my senior year in high school) and now it looks as if were done.

So i'm going to take a break from posting for a little while now, you may not see me for a long time. If you have enjoyed my posts over the past few weeks and you express it, I will appreciate it. Well, it was fun while I was here, but now I must go.

Later guys.

[y2cragie]

Not your fault it broke. accidents happen as they say even the best protection fails 1% of the time. You might have just been unlucky to be in that 1%.
Just wait until you hear from the doctor.

[Dream]

No, she has no grounds to take you to court. Don't worry about it, my girlfriend and I have never had sex and her period is usually in flux and sometimes she gets worried even though she knows what the true answer is. Perhaps it's just coincidence. Perhaps your girlfriend just has her panties in a bunch. If it ends up being a baby, you know the three choices you have!

[Bellthebest]

yea, dont worry about her taking you to court...if you both agreed....then it should be fine...

goodbye AdeingBronco......


i hope you can post soon..... c ya :beer:

[IZAAK]

I have found out lately that, a lot of women are losing their minds... I am not sure what it is but it seems they just can't put themselves together...

It's not your fault... She has no case... but if she is pregnat and she goes through with it, just make sure you are there for your child... There are few too many little kids growing up with a parent... So even if she drives you up a wall, stick with it, your kid will love you for it...


Good luck!!! See you when you come back!!!

[Adrenaline]

but if she is pregnat and she goes through with it, just make sure you are there for your child... There are few too many little kids growing up with a parent... So even if she drives you up a wall, stick with it, your kid will love you for it...

Thats true alot of kids grow up with out parents. It takes a man to stick with the kid. Hopfully if its true you will be a man.

Cya...all the best man :beer:

[Perry1977]

She's not pregnant, she's psycho. Don't believe anything she says until you have absolute proof she is pregnant. Taking you to court? Come on, that's one of the most immature things I have ever heard. What kind of messed up chick says that after she thinks she's pregnant?

IMO, she is manipulating you. That's the one thing that girls can hang over a guy's head and have no real proof for at least 3 months. Sounds like this is a blessing in disguise. You get to break up with the psycho before she totally destroys your life!

Sorry to dis her, but it doesn't take a rocket scientist for figure out that if you are having sex, you are running the risk of pregnancy. :duh: She sounds like the type of person who can't ever take responsibility for anything, and alway has to blame others for her own mistakes.

Here's my advice. After she has to admit that she's not pregnant ("anymore", is what she will say) and she wants to get back together, give her the middle finger and tell her to get bent.

[Alastor]

I tend to agree with everyone above, and she's likely not as pregnant as she is playing with your mind.

But if she's pregnant, Broncology is in rare form, and is completely wrong. She can indeed take you to court and force you to pay for at least half of whatever the choices she makes cost.

There are other things that can happen too... and thankfully I'm not real well informed over what can happen here.

But yes, if she's pregnant it's just as much your problem as hers. Moreso actually, since you're equally responsible but get none of the powers of choice that she has at her disposal.

[topscribe]

If she's pregnant, be sure it's your baby. Whatever tests are necessary.
If they prove it is yours, accept your responsibiliby.
Keep in mind that it is not the baby's fault what you did.
From that point on, that child's life, that child's world, is what you make it.
The child is at your mercy.

If the baby is not yours, or she is not pregnant, hit the road, Jack!
You don't need that kind of head case in your life.
And be more discerning in your judgment of character next time.

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[Bronx84]

yea, dont worry about her taking you to court...if you both agreed....then it should be fine...

goodbye AdeingBronco......


i hope you can post soon..... c ya :beer:
Yeah cya later man I hope it's not true.

[margerafanisbac]

time for a chick's insight...

dont worry about it too much. with some girls its common to be late when having sex, even tho they're not pregnant. and even if she is, she cant sue u over it, maybe for child support, but thats it. and i hope u would pay that anyways, and be a part of the child's life....

but trust me, dont worry too much about it. all you can do is wait, so wait you shall.

no offense, but she also may just be a big ***** and just wants to screw with ur head.... chicks do that, i mean i dont, but some chicks do that...

:cheers:

[West]

You are an excellent poster regardless the post count...And i wish you the best...and if she is pregnant i advise you to be the best dad you can be to that baby...

[Snk16]

Well you're a good poster. :beer: Good luck with everything, come back now ya hear?

Forgive my hillbillienes. :laugh:

[Johnny Law Man]

The very first thing that you should do is relax...You will need to have some sort of civil relationship if indeed the two of you have created life together...

Treat her with respect and speak kindly to her...that may be all that she is after anyway...

Encourage her to have a pregnancy test administered by her doctor...

If it comes back positive...have a very serious talk with her about other potential partners that she may have had...be caring and non-accusatory...you may need to seek legal consultation...

If it comes back negative...well I assume a party will occur...

Hate to lose any poster on this board, much less another Bronco fan...good luck and hope to see you back soon...

[JoRo]

Dont get mad, tryin to lighten the mood here........

If you really wanna be technical.....she was screwed................. sorry lol........ All kidding aside though: You cant be legally hurt.......or as far as I know you can't, as long as it was consentual. On the other hand, kind of stinks if it leads to a child going through a poopy home life cuz of a thing with you and her.

I hope things work out for ya man :)

[PAINTERDAVE]

Dude.

Lets look at what you said.

She's my girlfriend. 3 yrs.

We got together, did the nasty, condom broke.

WE DID NOT COMMUNICATE FOR TWO WEEKS.

When we did, she called me, she is angry and upset, and she is speculating about being pregnant to the point of saying it is fact.

There is a way old saying:

LET"S CROSS THAT BRIDGE WHEN WE COME TO IT.

Dude... you have a girlfriend with who you fornicate then do not call her for 2 weeks? Then it was HER calling you to break the ice.

POINTS TO PONDER:

1) She is not getting what she needs from you, so she projects pregnancy

2) She is weak and stupid for staying with an unfulfilling relationship

3) You are not a very good boyfriend, you obviously have little concern for her

4) If she is not pregnant a breakup is in order, a PERMANENT breakup

5) This incident provides an opportunity for you to look inside yourself and
decide what kind of man you truly want to be. The future is unwritten.

[broncosfan247]

jeez, if she's threating to take you to court she must really love ya. if she's not pregnant you might want to question your guys relationship :P