cheating gf of 2 yrs

[jeremy_koenig]

Hey everyone..........im just really upset right now. My gf cheated on me last week and now we're taking a break, but im over there alot. The thing is, is that she is still seeing both of us and she keeps telling me to hold on and she probably pick me in the end. I dont know what to do........we've been together for 2 years and i dont want to throw it all away. Any suggestions?

[Kapaibro]

What?????? :eek: :mad: :eek:

That's madness!!! Okay you've been together for 2 years, but man, you do not need to be putting up with that!

Speaking as a woman, I would never cheat on someone. Sure you can read the menu, but you don't order a meal. If I have ever felt like cheating on my bf's, I have either gotten the hell over it, or broken up with them.
Keeping the 2 of you strung along is just rude, and you should turn your back. There are many women out there who would never even consider such behaviour!
Time to run screaming from the building mate!

[PR-Broncomaniac]

Throw it away, or be willing to live the rest of your life as a punk.
Women are a dime a dozen, so hit the pubs and meet your future GF.

[LawDog]

Having been through exactly the same situation very early in my life...

Listen to your head, and not your heart on this one. Walk away and never look back. She obviously does not respect your relationship and you will never completely trust her again.

I spent, no wasted, an additional year and half past this point in my "relationship". It took her getting pregnant with the other guy for me to finally come to my senses.

That doesn't mean you have to be a jerk about it though, just let her know that you are not willing to continue the relationship and wish her the best in life. Then get on with yours.

[PR-Broncomaniac]

That doesn't mean you have to be a jerk about it though, just let her know that you are not willing to continue the relationship and wish her the best in life. Then get on with yours.

Well said.
She will be looking for him if he does that...............cause women always want what they cannot have.
If she looks for you............then treat her like a whoe! :mad:
Peace Out.

[The Dark Knight]

Hey everyone..........im just really upset right now. My gf cheated on me last week and now we're taking a break, but im over there alot. The thing is, is that she is still seeing both of us and she keeps telling me to hold on and she probably pick me in the end. I dont know what to do........we've been together for 2 years and i dont want to throw it all away. Any suggestions?




Get rid of her dude.

Dictate the actions of your own life.

Don't let her do that for you.

Once you do that and drop her, she'll want you back.

But don't take her back, find someone else.

She's not worth it.

[Emancipator]

But if it was me. I'd hit it one more time w/protection and then dump her for good. Get rid of the .

[98Yards2Glory]

Take the high road dude, & just bail the whole situation with as few words possible if any, She is low so you won't see Her on said road. Unless you like that whole cuckold thing? It's called self respect, any chick playing You the way she is doesn't have any for you. Good luck.

[Reidman]

Hey everyone..........im just really upset right now. My gf cheated on me last week and now we're taking a break, but im over there alot. The thing is, is that she is still seeing both of us and she keeps telling me to hold on and she probably pick me in the end. I dont know what to do........we've been together for 2 years and i dont want to throw it all away. Any suggestions?
Bro, I'm sorry this happened to you, and I know it sucks. I had the same thing happen to me but we were married.
She has already thrown your two years away the minute she cheated on you. I don't care what anybody else has told you, once a cheater, always a cheater. The trust will take forever to regain if you stay with this girl. Drop her and move on man. It will be very hard at first, but you will be thankful over the long term especially when you find a woman who treats you right.

[bcbronc]

Hey everyone..........im just really upset right now. My gf cheated on me last week and now we're taking a break, but im over there alot. The thing is, is that she is still seeing both of us and she keeps telling me to hold on and she probably pick me in the end. I dont know what to do........we've been together for 2 years and i dont want to throw it all away. Any suggestions?


yup you gotta get rid of her immediately. she's playing you right now. she'll PROBABLY pick you? thats good enough for you? right now you are giving her permission to cheat on you. your telling her that she doesnt have to respect you or your feelings. i guarantee you that she is telling the other guy (assuming he even knows) that she'll PROBABLY pick him to and she's loving the power she has over the two of you.

move on. she's not the right girl for you, unless perhaps your interested in a swinging kind of relationship (im serious, maybe you are and then your relationship might work). if not move on, remember the good times, try and forgive her but GET OUT OF THAT RELATIONSHIP!!

[EMCF]

Drop the slut like a sack of hammers.

Have some self-respect, don't be at her ******* beck & call, she's cheating on you, that's not a quality I like to have in the girls I date.

[Chronic_Toker]

Do as everyone else has said and GET RID OF HER!!!

Yeah, it's gonna sting like hell, but in the end you will be so much happier. Find someone that you can actually trust, because you'll never have it back with this one.

She's not the one meant for you, believe me...that one won't do that to you.

[Uula Bear]

The only time it's ok for someone to see two different people is if both relationships are new and he/she doesn't know who they like better yet. If someone's in a two year relationship, it's not alright to be sitting on the fence between two people. Your relationship should have ended when she cheated on you.

[Jared]

I am in total agreement here.

If it is new relationship, and there is no agreed upon commitment or exclusivity, then both are free to date as they please.


But after two years, to simply say "I want to date this other guy and date you too" is disrespectful.

You must not let people have control over you. Simply tell her, firmly (but not rudely), that she can see the other fellow, that's fine. But you no longer wish to see her, as you have an expectation of commitment that she is unwilling to live with.

And then get on with your life.


She may or may not try to get back with you. That's a personal decision you would have to make.

But remember, fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, and I am a moron.

[In-com-plete]

You got to end it. End it now. Don't waste another minute talking to her. Don't waste another minute with her. Drop that dirty chick and get on with your life. Don't even "hit" it one last time like someone else said. That might suck you or her back in. Like a band aid man. GRRRR...Ouch...Done!

[PR-Broncomaniac]

"She is not at fault for cheating on me, I am the one at fault for ever having trusted her............" Author Unknown

If you do not walk away, your time has no value and the opportunity of meeting better ladies will pass. So act now!
Remember: being a gentleman is always the best policy.

[Purdue Pride]

Definatley get rid of her man quick. If not you'll just look like a fool and it'll get ALOT worse. There's plenty of good women out there for ya.

[Sam24]

Hey everyone..........im just really upset right now. My gf cheated on me last week and now we're taking a break, but im over there alot. The thing is, is that she is still seeing both of us and she keeps telling me to hold on and she probably pick me in the end. I dont know what to do........we've been together for 2 years and i dont want to throw it all away. Any suggestions?
Im trying to buy a house, I offered the seller 210,000, he said ok but well sign a contract and you gotta keep the house on the market for three months before you moe in just incase I get a better offer!
You do know what I told him he could do with his house and offer right?
C-mon man you gotta be smarter than this, your a man, so boe up like one!

[scottie]

Sorry but you deserve better than her ..... I know thats easy for us to say as we are not in your position and yes 2 years is a lot of time to invest in someone else. But, just after my father died, I dumped my boyfriend of 8 years as he didnt support me in my time of need ......

Just before I met my husband, I was seeing a guy in Glasgow ...... one Wednesday I received a text message from him that was meant for another girl ...... I got mad and dumped his sorry little backside and made a determined effort to show him ...... I am now happily married and he is well ...... still going between a few girls!!

Even though you guys have 2 years together, how can you trust someone like her?? I couldnt ........ it will be her loss .......

[SSBRONCS]

My opinoin is that you do whatever you can to forget that girl. She obviously has no respect for you but you should have plenty of it for yourself. Drop the hoe and then move on to the next. I'll have a beer for you bro and good luck with your decision.

[orangenblue420]

Hey everyone..........im just really upset right now. My gf cheated on me last week and now we're taking a break, but im over there alot. The thing is, is that she is still seeing both of us and she keeps telling me to hold on and she probably pick me in the end. I dont know what to do........we've been together for 2 years and i dont want to throw it all away. Any suggestions?


Kick her sorry ass to the curb - once a cheater - always a cheater, in that respective relationship - if a person knows they can take advantage of you they will - its human nature - she may not do it to hurt youon purpose but she knows that she can and has gottne away with it and u forgave her - she will do it again - she will always be testing the waters and using you as her safety raft till she jumps ship and finds what she thinks is something better to only discover she hasnt and will try and jump back on your boat - well honey you need to set sail your ship and leave her ass plain and simple - get pi$$ed at her - (you already should be) - it will make it easier to do

[Snk16]

Once a cheater, always a cheater.

[Bishop]

Hey everyone..........im just really upset right now. My gf cheated on me last week and now we're taking a break, but im over there alot. The thing is, is that she is still seeing both of us and she keeps telling me to hold on and she probably pick me in the end. I dont know what to do........we've been together for 2 years and i dont want to throw it all away. Any suggestions?

Jeremy, the only suggestion that anyone should give you is listen to your heart. You know better than any of us if this girl is worth the pain that she is putting you through man. No girl is worth crying over. But if you find one that is, she won't make you cry anyway.

I just recently broke up with my girlfriend of three and a half years and she already has another serious boyfriend. Not only did I lose my girlfriend but she also took my dog! I lost them both at the same time. My world came crashing down around me, but the world's rotation did not change and the sun still rises in the east and sets in the west. Honestly, you are the same person without her that you are with her.

It sound to me that this girl isn't the right one at this moment. Maybe down the road, but she sounds confused and her confusion is destroying you. Let her go, if she comes back then maybe it was meant to be. But, truthfully, what the hell do I know? Listen to yourself, be selfish about this decision. It sounds like she is.

Whatever you choose to do, know that you always have some people that you can talk to here. Everything works out in the end, so if it isn't working out then it is not the end.

[scottie]

Once a cheater, always a cheater.

I agree with this ..... once the trust has gone, its not worth it anymore .......