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Being "comfortable" with the people around you, or the environment you dwell in, is such a special thing.......and for my money, it is grealy underrated when it comes to life's best things.
For me, being comfortable means I can be myself, and feel good about it.......and reflects the positive state I am in thanks to the type of people that I hang with, or place that I am in. And being comfortable means that for all my flaws and things that I do not normally want to share with others.....when in certain company, these so called blemishes are never the priority, unless of course I want them to be.
Some of it has to do with familiarity of course.......as in, you've covered this ground before, and there is nothing new or surprising or concerning about it. Some of it has to do with your confidence as well......as in, I can handle this, whether or not you can.
But most of this has to do with the importance of good family and friends, who take you for what you are, and are open-minded about any "imperfections" that come with the package....for we all have some.
So........next time you are in a meeting with a boss or peer who constantly makes you feel "uncomfortable", or in places where folks try to bring you down rather than build you up, or where others give you a strange look for something that makes you different or for something you have done (with good intention)......or if you are in a place that makes you feel "restricted"...........
......well, I suggest it is then that you make a list of all the good folks in your life, and the places you love, and make sure you give the folks on this list an extra chunk of appreciation. And as for the place......be glad that you have these happy spots in your world.:thumb:
For me, being comfortable means I can be myself, and feel good about it.......and reflects the positive state I am in thanks to the type of people that I hang with, or place that I am in. And being comfortable means that for all my flaws and things that I do not normally want to share with others.....when in certain company, these so called blemishes are never the priority, unless of course I want them to be.
Some of it has to do with familiarity of course.......as in, you've covered this ground before, and there is nothing new or surprising or concerning about it. Some of it has to do with your confidence as well......as in, I can handle this, whether or not you can.
But most of this has to do with the importance of good family and friends, who take you for what you are, and are open-minded about any "imperfections" that come with the package....for we all have some.
So........next time you are in a meeting with a boss or peer who constantly makes you feel "uncomfortable", or in places where folks try to bring you down rather than build you up, or where others give you a strange look for something that makes you different or for something you have done (with good intention)......or if you are in a place that makes you feel "restricted"...........
......well, I suggest it is then that you make a list of all the good folks in your life, and the places you love, and make sure you give the folks on this list an extra chunk of appreciation. And as for the place......be glad that you have these happy spots in your world.:thumb:
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