can anyone PLEASE help with this problem?!! theres this girl....

[bronx_2003]

yes, the quickest way to get your heart cut up and your feelings stamped all over. at the risk of sounding:- desperate, sad, a loser, etc..... i'm going to reach out to the bronco family in the hope that they can help.

any suggestions will be greatly appreciated. here goes..........

theres this girl that i met from work a few weeks back (she has now left that place) and she wanted to keep in touch with me, we have talked on the phone a lot and text each other a lot. anyway, we met up on saturday and went shopping (for 8 hours!!! and i was carrying the bags!!! she sure likes to shop!!). when i left her on saturday night i felt a little depressed which was strange as i should of felt good, then i realized that i REALLY missed her.

i was just about to text her saying thanx for a good day when she sent one to me saying the same, i replied and she said we will do it again soon.

here's the problem - i text her on monday night to talk and she didnt reply until the following night (after she would instantly txt before) and then when she did txt me i sent one back to her (on tuesday at 5), she STILL hasnt replied (am i reading too much into it?).

if she was interested would she of replied by now?

anyway, she does have a bf but they have lost touch and i believe are just about to break. i dont want to just keep bothering her or sound really desperate and tell her all this but what can i do???????

before anyone says, there are plenty more out there, i have been out with quite a few girls in the last few years but THIS girl means something to me and i REALLY like her, i dont often meet someone i feel this strongly about. she is beautiful, great to talk to and be with and she has a good heart.

what should i do???

[alan]

wat can go wrong if you tell her how how you feel,if ye dont see her dat much anyway,then theres no loss

[bronx_2003]

wat can go wrong if you tell her how how you feel,if ye dont see her dat much anyway,then theres no loss

i'll lose her friendship, sound desperate and i really dont want her to feel bad, like she just got a good friend and straight away he's hittin' on her.

theres a fine line between looking keen and looking desperate.

[The Dark Knight]

Play it cool man.

Don't be too eager. They lose their attraction for you.

You need to reverse the roles just a tad.

Make her wait a little.

Let her know that she's not a top priority.

It drives women crazy when you ignore them.

But don't go to far, just string her along.

Soon, she'll be chasing you.

I wouldn't let the delay in messaging get you down. Use it to your advantage. When she reply's, just say "What?" act like you have no idea what she's saying.
Pretend you forgot the message you sent her because it took so long for her to reply.

[bronx_2003]

AAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

[BroncoBailey024]

Your in i mean my god u went shopping ffs

[bronx_2003]

Play it cool man.

Don't be too eager. They lose their attraction for you.

You need to reverse the roles just a tad.

Make her wait a little.

Let her know that she's not a top priority.

It drives women crazy when you ignore them.

But don't go to far, just string her along.

Soon, she'll be chasing you.

I wouldn't let the delay in messaging get you down. Use it to your advantage. When she reply's, just say "What?" act like you have no idea what she's saying.
Pretend you forgot the message you sent her because it took so long for her to reply.

thanx man

that has worked before but on girls i DONT want.

it sounds like you got this method down cold so i will put my faith in it.

[bronx_2003]

Your in i mean my god u went shopping ffs

yeah....EIGHT hours and she could of gone on allllll night (the shopping that is LOL)

its a little thing called........SACRIFICES.

[The Dark Knight]

Your in i mean my god u went shopping ffs

I have no idea what you just said.

[BroncoBailey024]

yeah....EIGHT hours and she could of gone on allllll night (the shopping that is LOL)

its a little thing called........SACRIFICES.

pretty soon something else is gonna be all night lol

[The Dark Knight]

yeah....EIGHT hours and she could of gone on allllll night (the shopping that is LOL)

its a little thing called........SACRIFICES.

I only thought American chicks shopped that much.

[BroncoBailey024]

I have no idea what you just said.

well bronx did

[bronx_2003]

i didnt know ANYONE could love shopping SO much.

she blew over £100 (about $150) in a few hours and she got about as much money as me -

£0000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000 .000001

if you play it kool then you reap the benefits, although its not always that easy.

[The Dark Knight]

if you play it kool then you reap the benefits, although its not always that easy.

Unfortuantely you are right.

It's the women we like that makes us do the craziest things and turns us into the biggest asses.

I swear our IQ drops 20 points whenever a chick we like is around.

[bronx_2003]

Unfortuantely you are right.

It's the women we like that makes us do the craziest things and turns us into the biggest asses.

I swear our IQ drops 20 points whenever a chick we like is around.

LOL, im feelin' that.

normally i can just play it kool whenever a chicks around but as soon as THAT girl shows up i try to hard and end up looking like a complete jack***