Help Please!!

[drummerguy247]

OK....so i need some advice because im sure u guys are much more experienced with this stuff than i am ...So there's this girl shes never had a boyfriend doesn't really have any guy friends except me and she's really shy....I have liked her forever and i just can't stop thinkin about her....Now im only 16 so im not gonna say love because that is such a STRONG word...but one day we were talking to each other and we are both really shy around each other and like all of a sudden we were just like staring in each others eyes and it was awesome.....but anyways this girl is killing me like she gives me tons of mixed signals....like when im not around her and shes close by we sometimes cath each others eyes....and she laughs at like alot of stuff I say even if its not very funny....however sometimes it seems like she trys to avoid me idk if its because shes shy or somthing....sooo yeah if u read this i thank you and i will give a cp to whoever helps me out....thanks again

[Orange_Crush21]

Dude, I'll give you some advice. Not because I want some CP, but because I was that kid in high school that never took the chance on the girl that I liked.

You should definitely go for it. Ask her on a date, or do something so that she knows how you feel. You don't want to be in a place 5-10 years from now, where you have regret over not taking a chance.

Now, all that being said. You have so much life ahead of you. Enjoy your time in school while you still can. It might not seem like it now, but you will be out of there before you know it. Make the most of the time you have with her, while you still can. Whatever happens, you will be just fine.

[anton...]

well young cowboy...

all i can say is ...

GO FOR IT!!



sure it may seem a little rushed... and upfront...

but thats the sorta person that i am... and ive done quite well in my day...

anyhoo...

let me explain some of her reactions...

the laughter...

means she really likes you...

she is laughing in order to gain your approval...

which is great news for you...

the looking away means she is too scared to ruin it or send you the wrong signal.. even though it comes out the wrong way to you... she does not realise...

and if she has known you for a while now... and is still shy around you like you are shy to her...

well chances are is that she is feeling the same feelings that you are...

but trust me...

she will not make the first move...

so its up to you...

and like a dentiloquist.. who is someone who speaks through clenched teeth... you dont want to be that....

next time you are alone...

just tel her how you feel...

and spruse it up a little...

and she is yours!!!

and taking the word love seriously... thats awsum dude!!!

keep it up and good luck...

[Jewels]

OK....so i need some advice because im sure u guys are much more experienced with this stuff than i am ...So there's this girl shes never had a boyfriend doesn't really have any guy friends except me and she's really shy....I have liked her forever and i just can't stop thinkin about her....Now im only 16 so im not gonna say love because that is such a STRONG word...but one day we were talking to each other and we are both really shy around each other and like all of a sudden we were just like staring in each others eyes and it was awesome.....but anyways this girl is killing me like she gives me tons of mixed signals....like when im not around her and shes close by we sometimes cath each others eyes....and she laughs at like alot of stuff I say even if its not very funny....however sometimes it seems like she trys to avoid me idk if its because shes shy or somthing....sooo yeah if u read this i thank you and i will give a cp to whoever helps me out....thanks again

Okay...drummer to drummer...here's the way it's gotta go....

Life's too short.

Tell her you like her.
It's obvious she likes you.

Tell her.

Tell her you like her.....

Again.....

Tell the poor girl you like her.

Write her a letter even...
as long as she knows and doesn't think you don't like her back.

Wow...that sounded 3rd grade.

Just do it.

[jhns]

and if she has known you for a while now... and is still shy around you like you are shy to her...

well chances are is that she is feeling the same feelings that you are...

That is called sexual tension and it means the two poeple deffinately like eachother. I would say go for it though because even if she rejects you, I doubt anything would change between you two other than the first couple days after might be awkward.

[anton...]

That is called sexual tension and it means the two poeple deffinately like eachother. I would say go for it though because even if she rejects you, I doubt anything would change between you two other than the first couple days after might be awkward.

jhns...

buddy...

yea...

you reading this??

if you yelled for 8 years... 7 months and 6 days you would have produced enough sound energy to heat one cup of coffee....

[drummerguy247]

thanks for all the advice ...and yeah i'll defniately try it the next time im with her because what do i have to lose ....however its summer sooo i don't see her in person...but i do talk to her all the time online...now i don't know if telling her online is such a good idea but what do u guys think....i mean i could try to like get her to go somewhere with me...movies?....park?....something?

[anton...]

thanks for all the advice ...and yeah i'll defniately try it the next time im with her because what do i have to lose ....however its summer sooo i don't see her in person...but i do talk to her all the time online...now i don't know if telling her online is such a good idea but what do u guys think....i mean i could try to like get her to go somewhere with me...movies?....park?....something?

it has to be in person...

it has to come from the heart...

or the nether region...



but dont make it obvious either...

just go to movies or something that you would perhaps normaly do or have done... cos that will make it easier for you... you will feel more comfortable in a setting already tried and tested...

just make it somewhat casual...

and relax...

im sure you will be fine...

[jhns]

if you yelled for 8 years... 7 months and 6 days you would have produced enough sound energy to heat one cup of coffee....

I don't think I get it. If that is referring to the blowing hot air expression I would say that means I don't blow much hot air since it takes 8 1/2 years to heat up a cup of coffee?

[anton...]

I don't think I get it. If that is referring to the blowing hot air expression I would say that means I don't blow much hot air since it takes 8 1/2 years to heat up a cup of coffee?

no no...

you know i love you...

and i really dont think that far ahead...

i just put up an intersting stat...

as i found it interesting...

but what you said was very right....

i agree about the "sexual tension" saying...

[drummerguy247]

i'll try askin her to go somewhere like next week or somthin...but ill keep u guys updated and tell u how it goes

[underrated29]

alright little buddy, this is the perfect time to make this work, and since the both of you are shy there are a few routes to take.

1. if yo got the money, get some of yours and hers friends (but no guys that she is friends with, no competition), and go to water world.(trust me) have a good time and near the end, at the end, in the center of the earth ride, whatever, just be like, hey this was fun, i had a good time, we should go see a movie or something sometime- she will say yes... and you are in baby!

2. if you work faster then that, next time you talk to her tell her you got an extra ticket to the rockies( $5), if that cant work take her mini golfing- since both of you are shy you need to go somewhere where there are distractions to get rid of those awkwrad silences you will have on your first date.

if none of those work just straight up ask her

disregard what someone said up there, if you straight up ask her and she is a shy girl, there will be NO AWKWARDNESS the next couple times you see each other.

shy girls are shy for a reason, and are only flattered when someone shows them intrest, so even if she says no, it wont be weird, because she is probably to nice or shy to be mean or let things get weird.

PS- the shy ones are really crazy in sack

[anton...]

PS- the shy ones are really crazy in sack

you got that right!!!

[Snapping Turtle]

OK. I'm about your age, and I know that if I was in the same situation as you are I would want the guy to tell me how he feels. Because I'm sure she feels the same way. I'm pretty shy around guys my age, and I'm always waiting for them to make the first move. So I really think you should go with your gut and tell her how you feel. Maybe give her a flower? Flowers are good.

[redbirdy80]

This is awesome. Sounds like you might really have something here. The advice everyone has given you here is great, and I don't really have anything to add except GOOD LUCK! I'm sure you'll end up having a great time together, no matter what you decide, because it sounds like you have a great friendship, which is the foundation for any great relationship.