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  • Attention all ladies (and some men)...

    This is mainly aimed at older women, or men dating older women.

    I know it's pretty much common knowledge that women hit their sexual peak in life later than men. Is this true with all women? Do all women experience more sexual cravings in their 30's and 40's than they did in their 20's?

    I ask this because I am with someone that I am head over heels for, but we are on a different page when it comes to sex. I crave it all the time and it seems that she never does. I go out of my way to make it pleasurable for her and it's very rare that she doesn't climax, so I don't feel that it's me. We've been together for about a year and a half and it seems that her sexual energy has been on a slow decline ever since @ the 6 month mark.

    I mean at first it was every night, and I know that's not gonna stay with any relationship, but I didn't think it would change this soon. I mean we have sex somewhat often (@ 3 times a week) but every single time it's me that initiates it. The latter part of that previous statement is what gets to me. I want her to want it, not just do it to keep me happy.

    This also could be bother me more because I've only had one other serious girlfriend, and she was very similar to me when it came to sex. She never turned me down and even initiated it pretty often. So the fact that's the only thing I have to look back on probably amplifies this situation more.

    She also had a boyfriend in high school that did some bad things to her, things that have scarred her for life...so I know that could weigh in as well and I try to be as forgiving as I can.

    So...ladies, have you and all your friends experienced a hightened sexual appetite as you've gotten older? Or do you have some friends that are just as unsexual as they've always been? Guys, have you been with someone for a while and noticed her appetite for lovin' increase?

    I am so afraid that this is gonna drive me crazy, as it can only get worse right?

    *Please keep all immature comments to yourself, if you don't have something useful to add to this don't add anything.
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    Well, Im probably the most immature bastard here, but that doesnt mean I wont have something to add.

    In my experience with older women, It seems that they get more comfortable with their own body, and wish to bask in the pleasure of it more often. the younger years are just full of too much anxiety and tension to to be sexually voracious. Of course, Im probably wrong.... just my two cents.


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    • #3
      Originally posted by Broncofan-13
      Well, Im probably the most immature bastard here, but that doesnt mean I wont have something to add.

      In my experience with older women, It seems that they get more comfortable with their own body, and wish to bask in the pleasure of it more often. the younger years are just full of too much anxiety and tension to to be sexually voracious. Of course, Im probably wrong.... just my two cents.
      well ive never done it with an older woman...

      and by the looks of the vast ammount of replies....

      old men may need a lot of viagra to keep up with self comfortable women...

      but yeah...

      im sad to say it... but from what ive heard and from what my old man (dad) has told me in some of our deep and meaningfull conversations about world peace solutions and such.... is that it is true for older women...

      he told me his best years were in his 40's...

      he had money by then and he had bootey...

      and im done here...





      good luck!!!

      Last edited by anton...; 08-01-2006, 04:34 PM.

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      • #4
        I unfortunately still hold my V-card (something I'm working on changing) so I can't go from any experience.

        Yet what I do know is sometimes having intercourse too early in a relationship can ruin it. Sometimes thats all the relationship becomes.

        Good luck to resolving it though.

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        • #5
          Originally posted by cinnamunmun
          I unfortunately still hold my V-card (something I'm working on changing) so I can't go from any experience.

          Yet what I do know is sometimes having intercourse too early in a relationship can ruin it. Sometimes thats all the relationship becomes.

          Good luck to resolving it though.
          yeah...

          dont rush it cinny... in the real world... people dont care so much for the "v- card"...

          when its time its time...

          let it come... otherwise you may regret losing it to a $3 hooker...



          my mate is one of them right now...

          he wont addmit it...

          but all his mates know it...

          they will have a fight...

          they wont talk to each other for a week...

          they will then meet up... "do it" and have another fight....

          i think he is sick in the head for not realising this...


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          • #6
            My wife is 19 years older than I am. We have a wonderful relationship. What are your 2 ages and that will help with the answers? That will depend on the advise.

            One thing I know for sure that will help is talking to her about it. Let her know your feelings on the subject. She will appreciate your honesty on this matter and it might help. A stranger might not be able to tell you anything she has the answer for. Good luck.

            Remember we do have some young ones on this message board so be careful with the explanations when you post.
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            • #7
              I have almost always dated/slept with younger guys, and I'm pretty happy with that.

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              • #8
                [QUOTE=16milehigh87]My wife is 19 years older than I am. We have a wonderful relationship. What are your 2 ages and that will help with the answers? That will depend on the advise.

                One thing I know for sure that will help is talking to her about it. Let her know your feelings on the subject. She will appreciate your honesty on this matter and it might help. A stranger might not be able to tell you anything she has the answer for. Good luck.
                QUOTE]

                I'm 26 and she's 24. I've discussed it with her a little and she said she'll work on it, but she's said that about other things and they've stayed the same.

                I'm not really looking for advice, just some input from someone who knows. In a perfect world someone could tell me the % of women that experience an increased sexual appetite as they age.

                I just want to know if this is something I'm gonna have to deal with for the rest of my life, or if it will likely change.
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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Kapaibro
                  I have almost always dated/slept with younger guys, and I'm pretty happy with that.

                  Enthusiasm makes up for inexperience in most cases.
                  So have you become hornier as you've gotten older? I'm assuming you're into your 30's or 40's.
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                  • #10
                    I'm 13 and also are a virgin. (and plan on keeping it that way till married)

                    But is your relationship mroe than just sex? If it's not then it jsut might not work out. Try to make it meaningful.
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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by champbronc2
                      But is your relationship mroe than just sex? If it's not then it jsut might not work out. Try to make it meaningful.
                      It's MUCH more than just sex...trust me.

                      You will see as you get older that sex is a big part of a relationship. It shouldn't revolve around it but it does play a large part. A healthy sex life will keep a lot of other problems at bay.
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                      • #12
                        You might have already talked to her about this, or I may be way off..But if shes on birth control, or on any type of medication it is very likely thats the reason for her loss in sex drive..Depending on how long this has been going on for this is probably just a phase she is going through and hopefully for both of you things will get back to normal soon..

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by Chronic_Toker
                          So have you become hornier as you've gotten older? I'm assuming you're into your 30's or 40's.
                          It's not so much about been hornier, but knowing what you want more. Also, sometimes women just go through phases of not wanting sex. It's just how it is. We can redirect our atention to other things, and not be too concerned about it.
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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by Kapaibro
                            It's not so much about been hornier, but knowing what you want more. Also, sometimes women just go through phases of not wanting sex. It's just how it is. We can redirect our atention to other things, and not be too concerned about it.
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                            • #15
                              Well, just talked to her...

                              It turns out that the number of partners I've had bothers her. I don't know if that's the only thing causing it or not, but I sure as hell wish she'd told me sooner. I can't even tell you how angry I am, and knowing that she wasn't like this with boyfriends in the past...well that makes me feel great!
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