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    If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
    If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
    Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
    Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
    Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
    Slower is better.
    Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
    If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
    then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
    Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
    Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself
    a year later for staying when things are not better.
    The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
    Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
    He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
    Why would he treat you any differently?
    Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
    Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
    If something bothers you, speak up.
    Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
    You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
    Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has
    more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
    He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
    Never let a man define who you are.
    Never borrow someone else's man.
    Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
    A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
    All men are NOT dogs.
    You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
    You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about
    baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
    You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists
    of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
    Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
    Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your
    always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
    Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
    Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
    Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another
    RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.
    They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate
    them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

    I don't know I agree with everything in here, but I agree with a lot of it. Guys might not appreciate it, but I know I did when I got it.
    Ready for the friggen season already!

  • #2
    Originally posted by Giveemlove
    If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
    If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
    Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
    Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
    Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
    Slower is better.
    Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
    If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
    then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
    Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
    Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself
    a year later for staying when things are not better.
    The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
    Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
    He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
    Why would he treat you any differently?
    Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
    Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
    If something bothers you, speak up.
    Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
    You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
    Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has
    more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
    He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
    Never let a man define who you are.
    Never borrow someone else's man.
    Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
    A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
    All men are NOT dogs.
    You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
    You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about
    baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
    You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists
    of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
    Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
    Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your
    always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
    Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
    Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
    Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another
    RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.
    They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate
    them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

    I don't know I agree with everything in here, but I agree with a lot of it. Guys might not appreciate it, but I know I did when I got it.
    And men wonder why woman are crazy....look at all the rules for us!

    Well....that list would count out about 80% of the male population?

    Enjoyed the read Gem!
    "War is an ugly thing, but not the ugliest of things. The decayed and degraded state of moral and patriotic feeling which thinks that nothing is worth war is much worse. The person who has nothing for which he is willing to fight, nothing which is more important than his own personal safety, is a miserable creature and has no chance of being free unless made and kept so by the exertions of better men than himself.

    John Stuart Mill (Look him up )

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    • #3
      Guys might not appreciate it, but I know I did when I got it.
      I'm not argueing, but you are wrong in part. I do appreciate your post, because most all of those I agree with whole heartedly. I am one of the few out there that still believes that a woman is the most beautiful and precious of Gods creations, and should be treated as just that.
      sigpic sig by Vulcan thanx buddy

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      • #4
        Originally posted by Giveemlove
        If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
        If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
        Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
        Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
        Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
        Slower is better.
        Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
        If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
        then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
        Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
        Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself
        a year later for staying when things are not better.
        The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
        Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
        He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
        Why would he treat you any differently?
        Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
        Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
        If something bothers you, speak up.
        Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
        You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
        Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has
        more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
        He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
        Never let a man define who you are.
        Never borrow someone else's man.
        Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
        A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
        All men are NOT dogs.
        You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
        You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about
        baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
        You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists
        of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
        Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
        Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your
        always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
        Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
        Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
        Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another
        RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.
        They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate
        them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

        I don't know I agree with everything in here, but I agree with a lot of it. Guys might not appreciate it, but I know I did when I got it.
        good one GEM and the one I quoted is so true....
        Tony G


        The Chefs

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        • #5
          Originally posted by His Wife
          And men wonder why woman are crazy....look at all the rules for us!

          Well....that list would count out about 80% of the male population?

          Enjoyed the read Gem!
          Know how I know a woman wrote that?

          Because it's long and it repeats itself at times.

          Actually, a lot of that is good stuff. If every woman followed that list, though, I'd be getting all of Colin Farrell's women.
          HEAR ME ROAR!
          sigpic
          Thanks to Freyaka for the great sig!

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          • #6
            Originally posted by AzBroncoFan67
            I'm not argueing, but you are wrong in part. I do appreciate your post, because most all of those I agree with whole heartedly. I am one of the few out there that still believes that a woman is the most beautiful and precious of Gods creations, and should be treated as just that.
            First...Good read GEM...thanks for posting it!!!

            And AZBF67...Where did you Come From

            And PLEASE share with us where we can find more like you!!!
            Snk16!!
            VulcanGLF2

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            • #7
              Originally posted by Giveemlove
              If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
              If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
              Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
              Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
              Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
              Slower is better.
              Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
              If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
              then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
              Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
              Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself
              a year later for staying when things are not better.
              The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
              Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
              He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
              Why would he treat you any differently?
              Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
              Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
              If something bothers you, speak up.
              Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
              You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
              Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has
              more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
              He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
              Never let a man define who you are.
              Never borrow someone else's man.
              Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
              A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
              All men are NOT dogs.
              You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
              You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about
              baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
              You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists
              of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
              Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
              Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your
              always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
              Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
              Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
              Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another
              RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.
              They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate
              them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

              I don't know I agree with everything in here, but I agree with a lot of it. Guys might not appreciate it, but I know I did when I got it.
              Mods can we get this moved to where it belongs......Talkin Smack!

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              • #8


                Nice post GEM!
                ...capture it...remember it...

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Reidman
                  Mods can we get this moved to where it belongs......Talkin Smack!
                  You are no longer allowed to complain about how I never give you CP's.

                  I think there should be an entire forum where we can go to belch, fart, scratch ourselves, drink beer, and watch sports.
                  HEAR ME ROAR!
                  sigpic
                  Thanks to Freyaka for the great sig!

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by WhoDeyBengals
                    You are no longer allowed to complain about how I never give you CP's.

                    I think there should be an entire forum where we can go to belch, fart, scratch ourselves, drink beer, and watch sports.

                    The sad thing is that I gave him a CP too....
                    ...capture it...remember it...

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                    • #11
                      I'm male, yeah, and I understand some women view all men as pigs, I for one, am not, I view women as divine and beautiful creatures. But, I guess I wouldn't be engaged if I was a pig...I'm so arrogant.

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by WhoDeyBengals
                        Know how I know a woman wrote that?

                        Because it's long and it repeats itself at times.

                        Actually, a lot of that is good stuff. If every woman followed that list, though, I'd be getting all of Colin Farrell's women.
                        If every woman followed that list, life
                        would literally stop as we know it. Sure set standards,
                        but realistic ones, no "superman" standards no one can live
                        up to. (This can work in reverse as well).

                        It reminds me of the Cinderella theory
                        (and there is a book out there on that)....
                        (and I don't consider myself a feminist either)...
                        "The Perfect Man" Syndrome.
                        "The Perfect Man" Syndrome.
                        "The Perfect Man" Syndrome.

                        Are you listening to me?
                        "War is an ugly thing, but not the ugliest of things. The decayed and degraded state of moral and patriotic feeling which thinks that nothing is worth war is much worse. The person who has nothing for which he is willing to fight, nothing which is more important than his own personal safety, is a miserable creature and has no chance of being free unless made and kept so by the exertions of better men than himself.

                        John Stuart Mill (Look him up )

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by His Wife
                          "The Perfect Man" Syndrome.
                          Yeah, okay. :
                          Originally posted by HisWife
                          "The Perfect Man" Syndrome.

                          Originally posted by HisWife
                          "The Perfect Man" Syndrome.
                          Oh, that? Yeah.
                          Are you listening to me?
                          HEAR ME ROAR!
                          sigpic
                          Thanks to Freyaka for the great sig!

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by WhoDeyBengals
                            Yeah, okay. :



                            Oh, that? Yeah.

                            You said "women repeat themselves!" Come on WhoDey!!!!
                            "War is an ugly thing, but not the ugliest of things. The decayed and degraded state of moral and patriotic feeling which thinks that nothing is worth war is much worse. The person who has nothing for which he is willing to fight, nothing which is more important than his own personal safety, is a miserable creature and has no chance of being free unless made and kept so by the exertions of better men than himself.

                            John Stuart Mill (Look him up )

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by AntiSteeler
                              I'm male, yeah, and I understand some women view all men as pigs, I for one, am not, I view women as divine and beautiful creatures. But, I guess I wouldn't be engaged if I was a pig...I'm so arrogant.

                              divine and beautiful eh?
                              ...capture it...remember it...

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