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  • #31
    Originally posted by Giveemlove
    If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
    If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
    Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
    Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
    Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
    Slower is better.
    Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
    If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
    then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
    Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
    Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself
    a year later for staying when things are not better.
    The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
    Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
    He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
    Why would he treat you any differently?
    Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
    Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
    If something bothers you, speak up.
    Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
    You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
    Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has
    more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
    He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
    Never let a man define who you are.
    Never borrow someone else's man.
    Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
    A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
    All men are NOT dogs.
    You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
    You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about
    baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
    You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists
    of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
    Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
    Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your
    always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
    Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
    Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
    Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another
    RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.
    They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate
    them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

    I don't know I agree with everything in here, but I agree with a lot of it. Guys might not appreciate it, but I know I did when I got it.
    Thanks GEM for posting this! Great read and I am gonna pass it on!


    • #32
      The only time a woman can change a male is when he's wearing diapers!

      Anywho, we shouldn't WANT to change the person we love. We fell in love with them just the way they are!

      Fix-er-uppers are for houses!
      President of the GPA, Head of Mainland Europe Chapter

      formerly Officially Adopted by saltybuggah
      I adopted Skywalker

      I have been adopted by Chris Wade


      • #33
        Not all of these rules can be followed. Life would be pretty bland if they were, you'd be with a robot. But after being in a pretty horrendous marriage, there are some of these things that I do follow. I pay closest attention to finding my hobbies, finding myself and putting myself as an equal in a relationship. I didn't mean to offend anyone, and I do know there are good guys out there. Here's the first rule I follow anymore, if I find someone and they are the jerk and I'm instantaniously attracted, that's my first sign to RUN.
        Ready for the friggen season already!


        • #34
          Nice Post Girl!


          • #35
            Originally posted by LordTrychon
            Just handicapped.


            • #36
              Don't make me go Chauvinist on you gals...just kidding...