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Originally posted by JoRo
dude, don't ever feel that way!! no one should feel that way. . . you've obviously had some bad luck recently, but the hard truth is that's just the way it goes sometimes. . . . but IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT! don't blame yourself for things you have no control over. . .
Originally posted by JoRo
and good for you that you threw your ex's stuff in the dumpster-- smartest thing you can possibly do in that situation. . . . i'm sure you're broken up about it right now, but eventually you'll realize that with the way things worked out, she obviously wasn't the one for you-- may sound corny but it's absolutely the truth. . . you are so young, you will meet so many more girls. . . and you are very right that the best thing to do is just not have any contact with her for a while. . . every time you see her or talk to her it's just going to re-open the wound-- give it a chance to heal! and don't worry about her-- you need to put yourself first right now, and there's NOTHING selfish about that. . .
it sounds like you're starting to realize some of these things, but it never hurts to hear it from someone else. . . don't ever be afraid or embarrassed to ask for help, or just for someone to listen, whether it's with us here or someone in your regular life. . . stay strong-- you're going to get through this just fine, and things will get better eventually! and keep your sense of humor handy, it can be a valuable friend in these types of situations. . .
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