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  • Denver Native
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    Joe, I am praying for you. If you need to talk, pm me anytime.

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  • AzBroncoFan67
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    Hey Joe, hang in there buddy. We are all here for you. Remember, times can get tough, but God is tougher. PM me if you need to talk.

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  • dogfish
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    Originally posted by JoRo



    I felt like I was unworthy of being loved...

    dude, don't ever feel that way!! no one should feel that way. . . you've obviously had some bad luck recently, but the hard truth is that's just the way it goes sometimes. . . . but IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT! don't blame yourself for things you have no control over. . .



    Originally posted by JoRo
    I mean I felt guilty talking to people about my problems...
    you shouldn't! everyone needs some help sometimes, man-- you're no different, and there's no shame in it at all. . . it's just part of being human. . . stop beating yourself up-- sounds like you've taken enough hard hits lately, no need to add any more. . .

    and good for you that you threw your ex's stuff in the dumpster-- smartest thing you can possibly do in that situation. . . . i'm sure you're broken up about it right now, but eventually you'll realize that with the way things worked out, she obviously wasn't the one for you-- may sound corny but it's absolutely the truth. . . you are so young, you will meet so many more girls. . . and you are very right that the best thing to do is just not have any contact with her for a while. . . every time you see her or talk to her it's just going to re-open the wound-- give it a chance to heal! and don't worry about her-- you need to put yourself first right now, and there's NOTHING selfish about that. . .

    it sounds like you're starting to realize some of these things, but it never hurts to hear it from someone else. . . don't ever be afraid or embarrassed to ask for help, or just for someone to listen, whether it's with us here or someone in your regular life. . . stay strong-- you're going to get through this just fine, and things will get better eventually! and keep your sense of humor handy, it can be a valuable friend in these types of situations. . .

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  • Hartley
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    Hey JoRo, i am not a very active memeber of this board, but i have been here a long time and i feel like i know everyone.

    Anyway, i can tell you what has helped me in the past.

    First and foremost always remember to put God first, i can see that your all ready trying to do that.

    The second thing is to surround your self with friends. Its also important the type of friends you have as well, because i've found that its the people you have around you that change who you are, and who you become. Your friends will always bring you to their level, whether its good or bad.

    Always remember that your never alone no matter how hard times get.

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  • Superchop7
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    If you read the book "Why we love" it will truly help you understand relationships and give you solid footing for the rest of your life.

    Just read it, and leave the rest to God, you'll be fine.

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  • xX-Bronco-Xx
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    Just remember Joro, no girl is worth crying for if she does something like that.

    Your parents love you no matter what they've said or done.

    Your only 17 you have so much more ahead of you so you don't need to be sad but be optimistic and be happy because things will get better for you.

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  • Day1BroncoFan
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    Originally posted by JoRo
    Thanks guys. I updated my thing. I had gotten into trouble with my keyboard and didn't realize I didn't finish it. Sorry if that angers anyone

    Thank you so much for caring though guys... I know it sounds stupid... but it really feels good to know that

    I finally think I am ready to put God first... trust that HE will help me through the stuff with everything... I dunno... like i prolly said... it hurts, but I feel kinda good about it too...

    It doesn't anger me at all. I feel better knowing you feel better. GOD will always help us if we let him. Hang in and hang on.

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  • champbronc2
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    Originally posted by JoRo
    Thanks guys. I updated my thing. I had gotten into trouble with my keyboard and didn't realize I didn't finish it. Sorry if that angers anyone

    Thank you so much for caring though guys... I know it sounds stupid... but it really feels good to know that

    I finally think I am ready to put God first... trust that HE will help me through the stuff with everything... I dunno... like i prolly said... it hurts, but I feel kinda good about it too...
    It isn't stupid JoRo it is important.

    Heck, the progress you just made was great!

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  • JoRo
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    Originally posted by His Wife
    JoRo....Well, first thing you need to do is NOT BE HARD ON YOURSELF. You have been through great tragedy in your life, especially losing your mom. I'm really sorry to hear that, very much so. You are not unworthy of being loved, and I can tell that just by what you typed in your thread here. It's good that you reached out and talked with someone you could 'trust' with your feelings who would take the time to listen and care about you. It does sound like your 'ex' may not be the healthiest person for you to hang out with, but that doesn't mean you have to hate her, just distance yourself and make yourself 'priority #1', because that's what you are. It sounds like you have made some sense of what all these feelings you have been having are all about, and that's what most of us have to do....some soul searching and trying to understand how to move forward in various ways. Hey, real sorry about your mom, JoRo....that one hurts a lot no doubt. JoRo is priority #1

    Thanks guys. I updated my thing. I had gotten into trouble with my keyboard and didn't realize I didn't finish it. Sorry if that angers anyone

    Thank you so much for caring though guys... I know it sounds stupid... but it really feels good to know that

    I finally think I am ready to put God first... trust that HE will help me through the stuff with everything... I dunno... like i prolly said... it hurts, but I feel kinda good about it too...
    Last edited by JoRo; 01-25-2007, 07:12 PM.

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  • His Wife
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    Originally posted by JoRo
    Today I think I finally hit rock bottom.

    Last night I talked to my ex... and I have been for the last week.. not a smart thing and I recomend to many of you not to follow that example. I also went to my Youth Group. It was hard and I spent it angry at God, angry at Myself... just angry....

    I felt as though that this wasn't worth it anymore... it felt as though God was playing some sick joke on me... how stupid was I to not realize that it was the enemy.

    Before going to bed last night I swigged some Night time cough stuff. I didn't know if it was too much at the time... and I didn't care. I don't want to lie and I don't want to make any of you think I am nuts or anything, but I have been in a few bad places this past week. I was lucky, I woke up this morning.. although I wouldn't have told you that at the time. I went to school where we spent the whole day doing a course thing to get ready to take this big test for Michigan. I knew right away I wouldn't last past the first hour. I saw her and the guy together... being "just friends" by themselves... and I wanted to go home and take the rest of the Night Stuff.. (again sorry but I want to tell this)

    Before I went to my home though, I wanted to talk to my Pastor... ya know give the Big Guy one last chance to show me He loved me and He really did want me to be ok....

    Except my Pastor wasn't there. His wife answered the door, and let me in, asking why I wasn't in school... I spilled my guts to her, I didn't cry... but I felt like I was dying inside just saying how I felt about everything, tellin her the Pastors own wife that I was angry at God...

    I came to the conclusion that this wasn't just about my ex. This pain couldn't be just from that, and I realized that it was my mom and my dad too.. It felt like anyone who ever was really close to me for any amount of time left me. My mom had told me week or two before she died (last year) that it was harder to come home than stay at work... my dad calls maybe ever two weeks or so... and my ex... that jus seemed to be the straw that broke the camels back....

    I felt like I was unworthy of being loved... I mean I felt guilty talking to people about my problems...

    my Pastors wife told me that I needed to rant at God, he could handle it, and to just stop talking to my ex... not to be mean to her, but not tlak to her in specific. I think I have finally set out on waht God intended for me to do

    Please keep me in your prayers

    Joe
    JoRo....Well, first thing you need to do is NOT BE HARD ON YOURSELF. You have been through great tragedy in your life, especially losing your mom. I'm really sorry to hear that, very much so. You are not unworthy of being loved, and I can tell that just by what you typed in your thread here. It's good that you reached out and talked with someone you could 'trust' with your feelings who would take the time to listen and care about you. It does sound like your 'ex' may not be the healthiest person for you to hang out with, but that doesn't mean you have to hate her, just distance yourself and make yourself 'priority #1', because that's what you are. It sounds like you have made some sense of what all these feelings you have been having are all about, and that's what most of us have to do....some soul searching and trying to understand how to move forward in various ways. Hey, real sorry about your mom, JoRo....that one hurts a lot no doubt. JoRo is priority #1

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  • champbronc2
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    Originally posted by JoRo
    Thanks all.... I think I am feelin quite a bit better now after everything... it kind is scary how close it feels I came to losing the good fight....

    Thank you so much for all the prayers... I wouldn't wanna waste them


    Thanks guys
    I always feel better after talking to the guys/gals here!

    Just keep fighting. We all know you can do it!

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  • Day1BroncoFan
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    Joe, please understand that GOD loves you and that you are a special person. Don’t do anything you can’t change. Whoever this girl is, she is not helping you and it doesn't seem that she wants to. Please talk to your pastor and your counselor about this. Don’t let things weigh on you to much, you are young and you have a life ahead of you. Things can seem grim at times but always improve if you seek out the right people to help you and remember that there are people who care for you, people here care for you. You can come to Broncomania and post your thoughts. I will keep you in my prayers.

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  • JoRo
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    Originally posted by champbronc2
    JoRo I understand life can be tough sometimes but don't do anything nonsensical.

    We all like you.

    We would miss you very much.

    You know ever since that thread you asked for prayers I have been giving them to you.

    But as for the gf thing you just got to move on. Think of another girl. I mean you have so many wonderful years left so think about how great your future will be.

    Just get through those tough times.


    Come on man. We are here for you. And sleep a lot dreams can make you feel good if they are lucid.


    Might sound a bit corny but D.Will would want you to live life to the fullest.

    Thanks all.... I think I am feelin quite a bit better now after everything... it kind is scary how close it feels I came to losing the good fight....

    Thank you so much for all the prayers... I wouldn't wanna waste them


    Thanks guys

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  • CB Bronco Fan
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    Just remember that God has a Plan for everyone. Keep Fighting. If you need anything of if you just want to talk, Just PM me

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  • champbronc2
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    JoRo I understand life can be tough sometimes but don't do anything nonsensical.

    We all like you.

    We would miss you very much.

    You know ever since that thread you asked for prayers I have been giving them to you.

    But as for the gf thing you just got to move on. Think of another girl. I mean you have so many wonderful years left so think about how great your future will be.

    Just get through those tough times.
    Nobody gets to live life backward. Look ahead, that is where your future lies. -- Ann Landers
    Confucius
    Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.
    Come on man. We are here for you. And sleep a lot dreams can make you feel good if they are lucid.


    Might sound a bit corny but D.Will would want you to live life to the fullest.

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